The Number #1 Mistake we make is forgetting...
The ONLY Thing You/I Have Control Over Is...
OUR Thoughts and Feelings
OUR Thoughts and Feelings
Often we think, "if they (whomever 'they' are) would change what they are doing I would feel better, I would be happy." ('They' could be the government, political party, children, the boss, spouse, friend, mate or lover.)
Because we forget that we can not control others thoughts and feelings and that we can control our own we mistakenly give ALL our power away by wanting others to change their thoughts and behaviors so we can feel better.
Does it seem sometimes that others have the power to negatively effect your experience... (what if this isn't true?)
Does sometimes others think their happiness depends upon your response to them... (what if this isn't true?) Do you think that others happiness depends on what you do?
How often you think it is important what others think of you and you work hard to get approval from them... (sometimes it seems to work and lots of time it doesn't.)
All of the above would be true IF and it's a BIG IF...
IF you could think or feel for another person but...
Everyone instinctively knows no one else can think or feel for you and you can't think or feel for anyone else.
I Have Complete Control Over My Own Thoughts... You can find yourself in an endless loop where you explain that you feel negative because of the negative behavior of someone else. But if, instead, you take control of your own emotions and you think an improved thought because it feels better to do so, you will discover that no matter how the negative trend got started, you can turn it around. You have no real control of what anyone else is doing with their Vibration (or with their actions, for that matter), but you have complete control over your own thoughts, Vibrations, emotions, and point of attraction.
Even though sometimes others think their happiness depends upon your response to them. That is never, never true and if you think it is and encourage it from others it only leads to trouble for both you and them.
Even though you think it is important what others think of you and you work hard to get approval from them. The true is there is very little you can do to keep someone's approval coming to you because their approval is never about you; it's about them.
When someone gets anger at you, whether by word or action, their struggle, their fight, their anger is not with you; it is with themselves and if you don't take their words and actions personally--understanding it is their own personal issue--eventually they will leave you out of it. (However, if you take their words and actions personally it will continue to involve you until you can shift to a place of neutrality.)
One of the fastest, most effective ways to shift to this specific place in your thinking and feeling is This One Secret. (Please be advised that the introductory appreciation for This One Secret is about to expire and the appreciation will be raised to $97.)
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I recently subscribed to your blog, and I am so glad. The two I have read so far contain lovely and profoundly useful insights... IF I remember to remember them. :)
ReplyDeleteKim, I am very glad it is helpful. Please pass the bog on to others. To Your Best, Doc Houston
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